Welcome to TUESDAY TALK!
*I’m so glad to have you join me this Tuesday for our weekly Tuesday Talk Link-Up! Before linking up, let me share with you some things I’ve been learning from one of the best parenting books I’ve read in awhile!
In this brand-new book by Kristen Welch, discover how saying “no” can lead to life’s biggest “yes.”
One of my favorite quotes in this book is: “Nothing teaches gratitude like perspective.” Kristen explains: “If we compare with those who have more, we need to compare with those who have less.” If I want to teach my children to be thankful, I need to show them how much they truly have. In my home, we have a living example. Right now our almost three-year-old has been home for eleven months. Her life before our family isn’t something we like to talk about. It isn’t something we really want to talk about it. But we do. We want all of our children to realize others do not live in the same way they do. There are orphans. There are children who suffer. Who are lonely. Those facts are not something to hide or brush aside. Those facts are facts about a member in our family. We cannot ignore them. We cannot ignore that there are more orphans in the world.
We tell our two older boys (seven and five) about these children. We tell them these children have nothing of their own. We talk about their sister and where she came from. We use age-apporpriate language and topics. We are respectful of culture ad birth families. We do not shy away from the hard things though. We discuss how sad and lonely it would be. We discuss how we can help. Or how we can pray. It reminds them, to be grateful for their family. My seven-year-old has recently begun telling me (a LOT) how much he loves me. How much he loves having me as his mommy. The other day he told me: “If I could have picked, I would have picked you as my mommy.”
It warms my heart, but I wonder. I wonder if he realizes other children do not have mommies and daddies. He is beginning to grow the seeds of gratefulness. Through simple conversations, we can start to instill a heart of gratefulness. As our children grow older, we want them to be exposed and meet people from all walks of life. Those who are less fortunate. Those who have far less than they. It will teach perspective, but with perspective comes gratitude.
Read more about this in Kristen’s book!
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